What I really hope for myself and others is that we don't sacrifice everything just to become popular online.

Dear Cindy,

I've been thinking a lot lately about the influencer culture. Mind you, as someone who loves networking and photography, I have some friends who are popular and genuinely passionate about what they do. I admire them a lot! But because of this, I easily find myself questioning others and how fame and the influencer industry work. Sometimes I wonder if becoming an influencer today is similar to how becoming an accountant or working in IT used to be the popular career back then. Maybe being an influencer seems easier now due to technology and social media reflecting on culture of instant gratification.

It feels like many people believe the easiest way to make money now is by becoming famous online. They spend hours creating content, sharing every detail of their lives, and some even quit stable jobs to travel and show their lifestyle. But I often question whether they're genuinely passionate or just following a trend because everyone else doing it.

I also wonder if being an influencer can sometimes be a trap. People think it's easy money, believing all they have to do is dress nicely, look good, and visit beautiful places. But, they might not realise they're spending a lot of money, time and effort without knowing if it's truly valuable or meaningful in the long term.

I understand why some people might feel they have no other option than trying to become famous to earn money. But I hope they know that being successful doesn't always mean being popular online. There are many of other opportunities. I have friends who aren't famous (no IG account) but still live fulfilling, successful lives by focusing on skills, education, and networking.

I noticed an interesting pattern across generations: back in my grandmother's era, people earned money mainly to survive. My mother's generation earned money primarily for education. But now, my generation and younger ones seem to earn money mainly for their lifestyle. Do you see this pattern? It reminds me that things constantly change, and we shouldn't get stuck focusing only on one perspective or trend. Be smart.

I remember discussing with a friend and my sister how easy it is now to become a podcaster without being an expert. We talked about how toxic this can be when misinformation spreads. Entertainment can quickly become a misleading form of education. Well, so it's important to check if it's a fact or just an opinion yaaa.

What I really hope for myself and others is that we don't sacrifice everything just to become popular online. Real success is creating a sustainable you—something that will always last longer. It comes from education, meaningful experiences, personal growth, right investments and genuine connections.

“Don't confuse fame with success. Madonna is one; Helen Keller is the other.” – Erma Bombeck

Remember, success is deeper than online popularity. Share intentionally, with purpose, and always understand the reasons behind your actions.

Ganbatte,

Cindy-chan :)

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